Thursday, March 16, 2006

Love Filter

Every one feels "He is the one". Every one says Love is blind. Is really love blind. No!! Love is not blind but it is a deal.

My friends say they are madly in love with some guy. How is that guy? A person who drive a smart Car, with decent bank balance, with good qualification, Good Job with many other feature.

Then I said my friend "you don't like a main system, you just love the accessory". Even I may not be exception here.

So I question myself. Is there exist real love? No Love. Everything is requirement. If Love exist then why don't we fall in love with some one who is less blessed than us. Why this filter?

Other day I was discussing with my cousin on the subject of women & equality in job opportunity. My cousin said "Men should be given preferences.If Men get a job one family survives, If female no much help. Look men are ready to marry unemployed female. Are female willing to marry unemployed men. They look for more qualified person". Yes, I agree here we female are not so broad minded.

Female blog readers don't beat me up. It is a fact. Apple is an Apple. I have guts to accept.

20 comments:

Jigal.. said...

hi

ammm..... love is not blind...U r right.

i agree with you...

and the woman who r qualified they must have do the job... cause they r getting it on their own... i prefer working woman as my life partner...Cause they r smart n decent and more imp they r very understanding and Non Irritating:P...:P

and our system is set like that the in house it is necessary that Man has to earn.... so no1 accept unemployed man....

bye

take care

Jigal.. said...
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Shikha said...

Women already have the humongous task of giving birth and then raising,if shes not too lucky,a brat pack..and still people ask why girls look for guys with jobs??

Ashish Gupta said...

*speechless*
agree women have a long way to go, but they will go once they have to go.

What about men?
I am not asking will they go ahead. I am asking CAN THEY go ahead and change that far and that wide ?

you know its (next to) impossible. Its like building castles in the air and putting foundations beneath them later :P


But then action is the way, if not the guarantee, for change! 'thoda tum chalo, thoda hum chalte hai' :)

reminds me a song:
It has to start somewhere It has to start sometime
What better place than here, what better time than now?

Ajay said...

hehe thats hilarious.
nice one..

PuNeEt said...

don't agree with ur first part...
any way we all have diff views

as far second part...
thats so true...
reminds me of recent post of dwedy

Cheers

Ashish Gupta said...

thats a nice profile pic. hope you dont mind me using it on my blog, or elsewhere too :D

Arz000n said...

No Love. Everything is requirement.
I just dont believe in this word called LOVE anymore....its getting misused a lot these days...or am I meeting wrong set of people I dont know...

Yes...its just a requirement...nothing else...

Nicely written Boldy!!

Boldnbeautiful said...

@Jigal I am not opposing. Ofcourse Female should work.

I myself is working.

U have some misconception.
Who says working woman is understanding and Non Irritating?

It depends on a person. Sometimes non working woman are co operative because of financial dependency.

one can not generalise this.

Boldnbeautiful said...

@ Shikha motherhood is a nature's gift to woman. :) nothing can substitute this.

But bieng a woman I am so proud. I can be all. Mother , career woman.

No one ask why girl look at a employed man? And it is impossible for us Indians to accept an unemployed Man atleast for 2 centuaries :))

Boldnbeautiful said...

@Ashish Gupta I think woman is with par with a Man.
'thoda tum chalo, thoda hum chalte hai' :) yes this makes sense & better.


Ofcourse u can use that pic :)

Boldnbeautiful said...

@Ajay thank you :)

Boldnbeautiful said...

@Puneet Ofcourse each one has different perception.

Since u dont know real attitude u wont agree this.

Who is Dewdy? BTW second part is mirror image of many of our attitude

Boldnbeautiful said...

@Zoonie :)) come on. This is life honey.

They are not wrong set of people, They are Our "Mistakes"

Definately dont give up because of someone. Live inteligently.

Dewaker Basnet said...

some very valid points put..but again open for debate;)

Boldnbeautiful said...

@Diwaker so are u for or against

Keshi said...

** If Love exist then why don't we fall in love with some one who is less blessed than us

ur right...so right! But I guess it's not that Love dosnt exist...it's that that kind of true Love doesn texist in everyone :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

btw ur right...even I wouldnt wanna be with an unemployed man..guilty as hell :(

Keshi.

PuNeEt said...

well see again perception...

may be u have never fallen in true luv u can say that

susubala said...

Ashish, i know u r lucky enough to have a good luv ! I know....she doesnt look for the car, ban balance etc., etc., for u !